well actually more like Insecure about their relations
I got a whole story to tell but let's just start with that...
who is insecure about their relations with a girl... what i mean is
Don't trust any of her guy friends no matter how long they've known each other.

Not I.
However there are some things that I would deem unfaithful/no matter how much trust I have an insta-dump move.

cant talk to girls, girls dont talk to me, its easier that way

I know what you mean demon so let's start with story time
My best friends (a girl) is dating her boyfriend he is extremely insecure
well from my PoV at least
He lives in WestVan
My friend lives in surrey with me
She travels to his place everyday to see him...
so there was this one time she was coming back from his house late and he couldn't drive her back cause there was no car for him to do so...
so my friend called me to pick her up from skytrain and drive her home... along the ride home, he calls and asked who she getting a ride from? and my friend replies saying me... apparently he got mad at her for getting a ride with me... just cause i'm a guy and he was like i would rather have you take transit than get a ride with him

Dreams wrote:

I know what you mean demon so let's start with story time
My best friends (a girl) is dating her boyfriend he is extremely insecure
well from my PoV at least
He lives in WestVan
My friend lives in surrey with me
She travels to his place everyday to see him...
so there was this one time she was coming back from his house late and he couldn't drive her back cause there was no car for him to do so...
so my friend called me to pick her up from skytrain and drive her home... along the ride home, he calls and asked who she getting a ride from? and my friend replies saying me... apparently he got mad at her for getting a ride with me... just cause i'm a guy and he was like i would rather have you take transit than get a ride with him

Yea... that's insecure, I take it you two haven't had a relationship or anything in the past tho, correct?

EDIT: I'd rather have my girl catch a ride with a male friend than take the transit alone :S

well i have been in one... it just didn't work out cause my ex was the type of girl who was insecure about things and i didn't want to argue with her so i would listen... but that turn out to be a bad idea since it turn into a bad relation and didn't work out from there on...

Lol no. I meant with the chick you were driving home lmao

My friend has been in relations.... i dunno about her boyfriend tho
he tends to dislikes all guys that come in contact with her... lol
it's so bad to the point where she has lost contact with the opposite sex. =p it's that bad LOL like fine i understand if you dislike us hanging out
but to make us stop talkin to eachother is =\

I'm just gonna leave this here.....

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How long have you known him and been friends?
How long has he been her girlfriend?
If both answers are "a long time" or "for years", you guys SHOULD trust each other enough that you wouldn't do anything

What Demon said; domestic violence sign, had a few friends that were like that--ended up not being good at all.
Although give it more time, just to make sure, give her warnings of the few signs of domestic violence, although if her bf is being too possessive, seriously call for help... No really, you don't want it to get out of hand and get your best buddy injured!?
Besides! SHOW WOMAN POWER! YOUR BEST BUDDY SHOULD BE MAD AT HIM.
You should really stand up for her if she doesn't have the guts, a really caring friend always do that.

Lol West Van. Asian guy?
Anyways, I am not, or at least I wouldn't know. Never been in a relationship, don't have plans to be in one anytime soon.

But that seems over the top, he should be glad she's even going to meet him, he shouldn't be setting restrictions on how she can get there and back....

+ if he gets mad over something like that she should be really careful... the police found a body in north van(Kirkstone) a few blocks from my home.... don't wanna be hearing about another one anytime soon....

West Vancouver.. Holy crap I'm only 4 hours away from you guys xD!

Lol cool. I'm in North Van, been going to school in west van until recently.

im in victoria rue lol

Wow, west coast group much?

CREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEPPPPYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY, funny thing, going to Canada for dem anime convention xD... When I'm.. Older xD
ANWAY *SHOT* BACK TO TOPIC, hope you are doing well, sir.

LOL so my topic just got hi-jacked eh? into the West Coast =D

Lol my bad, but still. He shouldn't be pissed about her means of transportation, he should be fking happy that shes making an effort to go see him.

And yeah, weird lots of west coast people here. CLOSER THAN YOU THINK. OH SHI-

Hey I live in California (West Coast )
Well back on topic Dreams for now I guess just try to avoid being with her so that ur friend doesnt get angry

well it's not like in the position to say anything, it's just as a friend
i really want to look after her... but if she fine with it i'll leave it right?
cause from what i see it, she loves the guy a lot and i can't go oh he a bad guy(because they been together for a year and more now). no because i know he isn't, he is just really insecure.
i just want to know, if there's a better solution other than just not talking to her, cause it's stupid if she has to cut herself away from all her guy friends that known her longer than her boyfriend has.
I mean you have been dating for a year and like 5 months i think and he still can't trust her to talk to guys who been friends with her for the longest time. i just find it really stupid that is all.

Get to know him as a friend. If you're friends with him he won't have any issues when he knows what type of person you are.
(or he'll get even more jealous, not sure)
I know, easier said then done.

LOL If that will solve the problem i would've done it already...
According to my friend, her boyfriend said that he hates me LOL
another story yay
i was texting her during finals week back in december. and was like oh let's go have a feast after we are done our exams, apparently he saw that on her phone and was like... "why you making plans with him? you know i hate him" and turned off her cell so i couldn't contact her.
(of course this is, what my friend told me. so i can't be 100% that's what he said exactly)
but if some1 hates me, what are the chances of them actually wanting to try to kno me? lol

wow, how old is this guy.

umm probably a year older than me maybe 2 not too sure lol
but yeahhh haha