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PostSubject: Big trouble! (with GF)   Mon May 16, 2011 11:22 am

How should I put it... I've been with my GF for about two years and 6 months. It's been 9 months since we started a long distance relationship. Don't get the wrong idea, I'm no father!!


Lately, we had a huge disagreement about something as pointless as one can be, which turned into a huge feud and we eventualy broke up ~ just before Spring started ~
But we got back together after we properly apologized and explained ourselves to eachother (when I was back home). That made me real happy, things really got back to the way they were. But she called me about two hours ago and dumped me. I'd rather not say why (I did nothing wrong, if that's the idea you had, and nor did she), but that's definite (no hope to come back to the good old days XD).

I'm feeling quite lonely, it hurt twice as bad as first time (and first time already hurt like hell) and I'm here to ask what I should do. I don't think sulking or getting depressed are good things, but i can't help it. What should I do? Please spare me comments like "be a no life for some time and go back in the game after you've healed".

Thank you in advance.

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PostSubject: Re: Big trouble! (with GF)   Mon May 16, 2011 11:37 am

where do you live ? go to Paris, Ibiza or the Côte d'azur with some friends for a week or more and party like mad. Some there will be the "plage techno" at Canne and it'll be a freakin party non stop. Girls trouble are always solved with alcool and heavy sound.
I don't know if that advice will help you but it's mine.
I never had any problem when parting with my previous GF as I'm not really a sensitive man (never stay more than 2 week in couple) but It's still what I do. And if there is no chance for you to go back with her, I don't think that it's such a bad advice with the summer comming soon.

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PostSubject: Re: Big trouble! (with GF)   Mon May 16, 2011 12:25 pm

if it were me, i'd watch anime?

EDIT: yea not helpful i know T^T

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PostSubject: Re: Big trouble! (with GF)   Mon May 16, 2011 1:30 pm

@ Weaper: that could be a really nice idea, weren't it for my exam month. Plus, it didn't bother me before either so it comes as a huge blow. Maybe I should kill some time doing serious stuff then "chiner les shagasses en soirée pour me remettre" in June

I need to stand tall for still some time since I've got to organize & participate in a tournament held Sunday. I'll find salvation through sports and escaping sorrow (aka what they usually call avoiding reality XD)

@xezrei: indeed but thx for answering my plea.

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Dead people only know one thing: it is better to be alive
Rising always higher takes you to the top
That's cuz light is faster than sound that some people seem bright before they sound dumb...
Man was not made for work, and the proof of that is: it tires him
However high you may be, you'll always be sitting on your butt.
If electricity comes from electrons, does morality come from morons?
A nice woman lets you know you have only two faults, everything you say and everything you do.

Weird ways of saying something:
"I'll render you unable to biologically maintain life" (Love So life - LexiDaisy)
"She got away from my pheronomes at full power" (Sex=Love²)
"She's been blessed with post-natal fat" (Bitter Virgin)

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PostSubject: Re: Big trouble! (with GF)   Mon May 16, 2011 2:31 pm

go out, get yourself drunk, have a hangover on the next day Smile
and live your life after that as if u never met that girl before :p
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PostSubject: Re: Big trouble! (with GF)   Mon May 16, 2011 3:01 pm

Get another girl
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PostSubject: Re: Big trouble! (with GF)   Mon May 16, 2011 7:07 pm

Keep yourself occupied mentally and physically. Go out and fuck other women if you can. Socialize as much as you can (with strangers or build already close relationships). You're right to keep it together for exams (her fault for the timing). In the end be happy for the time you had but know you have to move on.

I'm not really the guy to be taking advice from but hopefully you find something that works here.

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PostSubject: Re: Big trouble! (with GF)   Mon May 16, 2011 7:30 pm

Thanks all for your advices.

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Rising always higher takes you to the top
That's cuz light is faster than sound that some people seem bright before they sound dumb...
Man was not made for work, and the proof of that is: it tires him
However high you may be, you'll always be sitting on your butt.
If electricity comes from electrons, does morality come from morons?
A nice woman lets you know you have only two faults, everything you say and everything you do.

Weird ways of saying something:
"I'll render you unable to biologically maintain life" (Love So life - LexiDaisy)
"She got away from my pheronomes at full power" (Sex=Love²)
"She's been blessed with post-natal fat" (Bitter Virgin)

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PostSubject: Re: Big trouble! (with GF)   Mon May 16, 2011 10:48 pm

haha but anime gets u occupied and makes u forget things(it does to me, more like im a forgetful person to begin with)

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PostSubject: Re: Big trouble! (with GF)   Tue May 17, 2011 1:09 pm

Yuki stay strong. 2 years is a really long time. It won't be easy to just let go of such a long relationship. So what I think you can do is to get some of your close friends and talk to them about this. Just talk. It will make you feel better. After that just do things your normal way. Throw away anything that reminds you of her if you really can't control your feelings and become hurt just looking at the things she bought you or vise versa and delete music which you always listen to and get reminded of her. Get a new hobby and make new friends. Prove that whatever reason she dumped you for was wrong. Don't get your mind off her though because IMO the more you try to get your mind off someone the more you actually think of them. So what I think you can do for this is when you start thinking of her just let your feelings flow. Yes you will feel hurt but this will make you stronger. Trust me on this.I know it sounds retarded but in time your feelings might grow weaker for her.

This are some things I hope will help you. Gambatte. Don't lose yourself.

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PostSubject: Re: Big trouble! (with GF)   Tue May 17, 2011 1:33 pm

you can also share some sexy pic of her that you don't know what to do with anymore. after 2 years you ought to havce some

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PostSubject: Re: Big trouble! (with GF)   Tue May 17, 2011 7:11 pm

@ Silent: thank you wery much. I already hung out with a bunch of female friends yesterday, it almost got me completely back on my feet. So your advice fitted me best (with Parallax's)

And I'm not hurt bad enough to want to throw away everything that reminds me of her ^^
Because it's not exactly her fault we can't stay together. Dunno why I did not tell before, but that's because she's departing for Brazil next week, not coming back for at least one year. Funny thing is that when she's supposed to come back, I'll have left France to go to an university in the US for about 6 months (one of my Grande Ecole partners)

So we wouldn't be seeing each other for at least one year and a half. That's why we broke up for good (since getting a GF ~or BF~ in the meantime only to kill some time would be cruel of us).

@ Weaper: I sure have, but I won't share them :p

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Dead people only know one thing: it is better to be alive
Rising always higher takes you to the top
That's cuz light is faster than sound that some people seem bright before they sound dumb...
Man was not made for work, and the proof of that is: it tires him
However high you may be, you'll always be sitting on your butt.
If electricity comes from electrons, does morality come from morons?
A nice woman lets you know you have only two faults, everything you say and everything you do.

Weird ways of saying something:
"I'll render you unable to biologically maintain life" (Love So life - LexiDaisy)
"She got away from my pheronomes at full power" (Sex=Love²)
"She's been blessed with post-natal fat" (Bitter Virgin)

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PostSubject: Re: Big trouble! (with GF)   Tue May 17, 2011 7:20 pm

vas-y fait pas ton crevar, fait tourner un einss' !!!
lol, come on, it's hurting you to look at them but it would be a shame to simply trash them, no ?

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PostSubject: Re: Big trouble! (with GF)   Tue May 17, 2011 8:55 pm

This is now a post your ex thread. Looool

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PostSubject: Re: Big trouble! (with GF)   Wed May 18, 2011 5:05 am

@Yuki
No problem x) I'm glad you are feeling better ^^

Haha I thought so too but I mentioned it because we never know. Aha I see well you know what they say right "Let it go and if it was really meant to be you'll get it back" (something among those lines lol)

I doubt he wants other guys to see sexy pictures of his girlfriend lol

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PostSubject: Re: Big trouble! (with GF)   Wed May 18, 2011 5:55 am

I'dd rather not, indeed ^^

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Dead people only know one thing: it is better to be alive
Rising always higher takes you to the top
That's cuz light is faster than sound that some people seem bright before they sound dumb...
Man was not made for work, and the proof of that is: it tires him
However high you may be, you'll always be sitting on your butt.
If electricity comes from electrons, does morality come from morons?
A nice woman lets you know you have only two faults, everything you say and everything you do.

Weird ways of saying something:
"I'll render you unable to biologically maintain life" (Love So life - LexiDaisy)
"She got away from my pheronomes at full power" (Sex=Love²)
"She's been blessed with post-natal fat" (Bitter Virgin)

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